Things I’ve Learned in College (part 1)

My time as an undergrad is rapidly nearing its end… yikes! In the spirit of the insane things that have happened the last 4 years, I thought I’d start a list of the good (and not so good) things I’ve learned… within reason, of course :)

  • Pick a school you love. If you don’t love it, transfer! It’s your home for the next four years.

Oski! Go Bears!

  • Living on your own is great, except for having to cook, clean, do laundry, and pay bills on your own
  • PGE requires an ungodly deposit every time you open an account at a new residence
  • Comcast will make you want to hurt someone. Repeatedly. Particularly when you find out how expensive they are!
  • Ramen noodles are God’s gift to college students.
  • Rainboots are a necessity in NorCal.
  • Hella is not, contrary to popular belief, a word!
  • Ikea is amazing. The end.
  • Target is almost as amazing as Ikea.
  • Cooking for yourself means lots of leftovers.

We had LOTS of leftovers from making gingerbread houses!

  • Parallel parking (on the right side of the street) isn’t SO awful in a Corolla. With a bigger car and/or on the left side of the street… all bets are off.
  • The city of Berkeley’s meter maids are pure evil.
  • Job hunting sucks.
  • Resume and cover letter writing suck as well.
  • Sadly, the above 2 are necessary evils!
  • Facebook is the best procrastination tool, second only to Chatroulette (or Stumbleupon)
  • If you don’t remember what you did last night, go on Facebook. There will be pictures.

Embarrassing pictures like this...

  • If you don’t remember what you did last night, check your sent text messages.
  • Being under the influence + any form of social media (or phone) = bad news.
  • Bring toilet paper in your purse to bars and frats.
  • Wear flip flops if walking to your destination, put your heels on right before you enter. Your feet will thank you.
  • Ants are indestructible. And they keep coming back. Ant tins are good though!
  • If you’re nerdy, be nerdy. It’s ok. You’ll find people who love you for it.
  • Game Days are amazing and one of the few things in college that I will truly miss.

Emerald Bowl, 2008!

  • Common sense is, sadly, not so common.
  • Make friends if you know you’ll be moving, because moving solo is awful (particularly when there’s furniture moving involved!)
  • Living with roommates off of Craigslist can be great (love you, Robin!) or the worst experience ever… it’s definitely hit or miss.
  • Adopting a pet is one of the most rewarding experiences ever.
  • Join clubs and groups early. Network early and often. It’ll pay off.

Rally Comm... my life for freshman year!

  • Get to know your professors in office hours. Don’t be scared of them, they’re people too! (Just very smart people, is all…)
  • Always spellcheck papers before turning them in.
  • If you ever want to work for Facebook, consider never going out/doing embarrassing things that will be preserved on film. Despite your profile settings, Facebook can still see them!
  • Tutoring athletes is trying, but can be very very rewarding. I suppose that goes for all kinds of tutoring.
  • Take classes you enjoy, even if it means you have to do your requirements during the summer. Give yourself time to experiment before locking into a major. Otherwise, you’ll start with one (English), add a second (Linguistics), then drop the second and add a third your senior year (American Studies)!
  • Having a car is a blessing if you can afford it… it makes grocery shopping, laundry, and Target/Ikea runs so much easier.
  • Not having internet is not an option.
  • Yelp is a great resource, as is Craigslist.
  • College boys are silly. I’ve decided that dating in college is largely a wash.
  • People in general can be silly. It’s important to surround yourself with good people who will add to your life, not detract from it.
  • Getting sick– especially serious things, like gallstones– can be really tough when you’re away from home.
  • Blogs, LinkedIn, and Twitter are awesome for creating networks of people outside of school, especially if you ever go to meetups/conferences or move somewhere you’ve been talking to people!
  • Online dating is… interesting. Very hit or miss, mostly miss. There are some weiiiird people out there!
  • It’s ok to be a tourist in your own town. You discover things you pass by during your day-to-day routines.

become a tourist... you'll see things like this!

  • In the real world, you can’t wear sweats in public!
  • Showering/grooming/putting on makeup is not overrated (this is a particularly Berkeley thing)
  • Take advantage of free trips and events. Going on the Birthright trip to Israel was absolutely amazing.

Jerusalem, Summer 2008

  • If time/your major permits it, study abroad!
  • Be nice to people in your classes. You might meet some of your best friends that way!

And remember, always wear sunscreen :)

Bonding… over Hello Kitty

I made an amazing new connection today, and it was all thanks to a Hello Kitty binder at Target. I’d gone there to do some shopping as a treat for getting a bit of work done on the online class from hell (ironic, since it’s run through BYU, no?) and was in the day planner/binder section when this gorgeous blonde woman literally shrieks with joy over a Hello Kitty binder. Mind you, I currently have a set of three file folders in my cart with fat little birdies on them, so I can completely identify. She looks at me sheepishly and I start laughing, mentioning to her that they have more adorable folders where I found mine. We part ways, and then about 3 minutes later I run back into her in the folder aisle. We’re standing there debating what to put in our respective carts, and I make an off the cuff remark about how I’m “only buying what I want to take with me when I move.” She asks me where I’m moving to and why, and suddenly it comes to light that she, too is a Cal alum. Not only did she go to Cal, but she’s getting her second masters (!) in web design AND she’s president of the San Francisco chapter of the Cal Alumni Network.

It was a completely random run-in, but, as my grandma would say, “beshert” (loosely translated asĀ fate/meant to be). What are the odds? We stood there in the folder aisle talking for a good twenty minutes about school, the challenges of job-hunting, how we feel old when 13-year olds are surpassing us in tech-savvy, and how CA really is the best place to live, even if we wind up moving. Eventually, we traded information and went our separate ways, but it just goes to show a couple things:

1. the world is an extremely small place

2. being nice to strangers really can pay off

3. Cal alums are AWESOME!

And, just because it’s cute, here’s a picture of me and the monkey working by the window yesterday afternoon:

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